[Boost-bugs] [Boost C++ Libraries] #8008: Four Enduring Truths ###

Subject: [Boost-bugs] [Boost C++ Libraries] #8008: Four Enduring Truths ###
From: Boost C++ Libraries (noreply_at_[hidden])
Date: 2013-02-07 13:26:20

#8008: Four Enduring Truths ###
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 Reporter:  catsripsila1977  |        Type:  Bugs            
   Status:  new              |   Milestone:  To Be Determined
Component:  None             |     Version:  Boost 1.52.0    
 Severity:  Problem          |    Keywords:                  
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 You will find suffering truths about ourselves that individuals often
 don't see or remember. What are they? They're truths which were identified
 a large number of years ago, and have stood the test of time. Here are a
 four of these, and a few ideas about how exactly to make use of this
 information.

 Enduring Realities About Self Attention

 We're self interested. Once we sacrifice for others, even that is inspired
 by our personal needs. Good feelings are included by those desires and
 attempting to see or make the planet just how we want it to be. Forget
 this, and we become bitter attempting to "do the right thing." To be able
 to avoid this resentment that comes with "duty", we must observe being
 fully a great person and doing the best thing is simply self interest.

 When we desire to correct their behavior we can also point out the self-
 interest of the others. Tell a man he's wrong, and it's perhaps not often
 enough to change his behavior. It's better to exhibit him his true
 interest - that operating in a way is better for HIM. Don't your
 investment healthy and normal self-interest in dealing with others AND
 with yourself.

 Putting up with Facts About Errors

 Salvador Dali said, "Have no concern with perfection. You'll never reach
 it." Maybe you see this as negativity, but knowing the stark reality is
 never an adverse work. Mistakes are all made by us. The maximum man or
 woman living - whoever he or she's - has been doing some foolish things.

 This really is not an attack on human greatness, but a recognition that
 it's not dependent on doing things correctly. While some hesitate to
 behave for concern with errors, perfectionists truly suffer for their
 demands upon themselves. Accept that making mistakes is normal, and don't
 live on the the likelihood or the truth of those mistakes. As Lao Tzu
 says, "Do work, then step right back - The only method to serenity."

 Putting up with Truths About Learning

 Our mistakes give us a chance to learn, and so prevent a great deal larger
 mistakes. Needless to say, we also can understand from our successes, and
 from the successes of the others. You will want to view successes and
 errors - both our very own and the others - because the great
 opportunities they're. Just grab that opportunity to find out more and so
 live better.

 Putting up with Realities About Change

 Probably you have seen people that appear to learn nothing from their
 mistakes, right? Have not in addition, you known and learn about their
 lives were turned by those who around? A less crucial truth is that
 individuals often do not change. Probably the most important of the
 suffering realities, and the much more important fact to remember, is that
 individuals CAN transform.

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